"No disrespect, but..." sounds a lot like "I'm not a racist, but...." Again, the guy makes it pretty easy to dislike. Can't understand how someone so successful can be such a sore loser. It's like he's blaming Win for how his peers voted (and not ignoring the clear criteria for the award).
"not to be a jerk, but ... your kid's pretty ugly"
One of the worst structured phrases in our language: the fallacy that some soft prelude negates the ensuing douchery.
And at this point, I'm sincerely hoping that somebody inside tOSU Wrestling gets in his ear and leads him...away from this nonsense. That proud program--that he largely built!--doesn't deserve to be dragged through the mud like this by him.