Wife went to Rutgers. Despite being friends with most football players (including Pickel Brothers) she never went into a game (tailgated instead). I fell in love with her in October of 1990- we drove from NYC down to RU for Homecoming on the spur of the moment. Walked into the stadium after halftime without tix. Watched RU beat Gerry Faust Akron squad/ Watched PSU beat Bama at Old Queens Tavern on TV/ Then went to a party of former football players where I was bullied and roasted about my "intentions."
She also took me to an RU hoops game at the RAC in early 90's. Haven't been back for sports since- but do try and hit Ag Field Day (was cancelled this year).
Daughter was at Wake Forest. Saw the Deacs defeat Lamar Jackson lead Louisville on Parent's Weekend '17. Still follow them closely- but unfortunately lost our daughter 4/20/18 so visiting campus is not in our plans until her "graduation" ceremony next Spring...
I am sorry for your loss.