Long, so feel free to skip over this....
I just cannot imagine that any of the guys I mentioned are ok with Tim facing prison time. Or really any such punishment. Unless they have evolved into true sociopaths over time.
- McQ knew Tim for at least his entire adult life if not longer. He stated that he thought Tim was a good guy and was concerned about him being named in the GJ indictment.
- Dandrea was a year behind Tim and a fraternity brother. They've known each other for over 40 years, and saw each other often at NLC and other PSU events.
- Paul Suhey was a local, and his family knew anyone connected with PSU athletics. Tim and Larry Suhey were within a year of each other in HS, played sports together, and I'm pretty certain the families knew each other very well for decades. Paul and Matt Suhey were in the same fraternity as Tim. Another 40+ year positive relationship.
- Joyner was another SC local and was a little ahead of Tim in HS and in the fraternity. But he was in close touch with the football and wrestling programs and knew Tim well for about 40 years.
I feel comfortable in saying that in each case, their relationship was positive, friendly, very social with spouses and families involved in many events. And the same is likely true with Schultz, except maybe for the college-and before years of knowing each other.
My point being - when they were so happily laying down or enabling the bs about the 2 PSU Admins who got thrown under the bus (we sort of know why some had it in for JVP, and Spanier was out of their control due to Corbett), did they actually foresee this result for this guy who they know to be an honest, straight-shooter who always strove to do things the right way? Did they think this crap could do in a good man to this extent? Did they care? And I'm not for one minute entertaining any bs about criminal charges changing the equation for them. They knew and know that Tim's actions, while not enough in hindsight, were prudent based on the information he had at the time.
Again, they've socialized with Tim and his wife quite often in the past, know Tim's kids, attended each others' family events, and certainly know they could have headed off this nightmare and redirected it back to Sandusky in the public's eye with more foresight and basic business PR prep.
(That redirection is important, imo, because the only reason the OAG hung on to the charges was for their own PR purposes.) I wonder just how morally-challenged these guys are, that if they really thought jail time - or even a conviction with probation - was a distinct possibility for their friend Tim, they would have allowed things to transpire as they did.
That's what I want some competent, fearless actual journalist(s) to ask of each of them. Not that I think any of them would have the guts to respond with 100% honesty. Do they have remorse for seeing how this played out? What would or could they have done differently? Why not have an aggressive PR play to direct the public to TSM?! (Again, the Pandora's box inference made by some on Twitter comes into play, we suspect).
Think about this in relation to your own life and your own long-time friends. We all know people who we consider friends who we believe to be of great character. We are happy and proud to call them friends. Would you throw them under a bus for the sake of convenience when trouble came down the street? Or would we ask some questions, slow things down, go to bat for these people? What if you were the one who could be easily tossed aside while friends who you've known for decades stood by and either did nothing, or threw wood on the fire at your feet... when you and they knew you had done nothing wrong based on what you knew at the time? And one of those watching you burn is the same person who gave you the info to work with, and didn't change that info for 10 years until the fire started?
Maybe I am clouded by the burden of empathy I have for Tim, a man I've known for over 40 years. I want to help somehow. (And yes, I've offered my help to him in whatever way he or his wife may need.) But how can any of these guys feel anything but a huge yoke of guilt themselves for allowing Tim to thrown into it this way, to this extent? Gotta be a sociopath to have known the man but to still feel ok after all this has gone down. And I have no doubt that each of them know, whether they would ever admit it or not, that what has fallen on Tim is completely unfair.
It's easy to dismiss all this as 'they deserved it' if you don't know the good people involved. If you know them, you cannot bring yourself to believe the jail time - or even probation - is warranted in any way. It hits close to home. It becomes personal.
Sorry for the outpouring of emotion. This is a good place to do some therapeutic writing, even if no one reads it! But right now I'm really struggling with this regarding Tim. I've been in touch with other friends of his, and that struggle is common to us all. I just hope the man survives prison intact and can get through the whole deal with good health until he can be free to re-establish his friendships. Thanks for indulging me if you have. And if you think I'm an idiot for having all these feels, I likely have you on ignore, so I won't get the pleasure of reading about my idiocy. (Except for you, bjf! Dis when ready!)