Hey look guys, I’m sorry if you all feel I attempted to ruin the thread. That was not my intent. I read only a few posts of the others by the OP and to me the story and the drama didn’t add up. I didn’t think my post would elicit any response except maybe, no this has happened to me or yeah I don’t know about that either.Let me be as clear as I can be. I told you to "please stop," and to "heed my words." I also told you that CF Lion has proven to me both on this board, and in ways he didn't even know of off this board, to be quite honest.
Your response exhibited almost no evidence of your heeding my words. That's a mistake. I very rarely offer public warnings. In addition, I rarely offer second chances. You received a public warning, and now you're receiving a second chance. That's the limits of my tolerance.
If you feel the need to reply in ways that attack me or what I've told you in my role as a moderator, or in ways that attacks the board in general or specific posters, that's certainly your right, but it will be the end of your time in this community.
I hope that's clear enough for you.
But I do see that people really are hypersensitive about the situation for whatever reason that I really don’t understand. So I don’t need to be right nor do I want to hurt anyone’s feelings over an opinion. So for those that this opinion triggered them, I apologize. Just know that I did not intend to make anyone so upset.
For Tom, I was just disappointed and a bit upset that I was threatened for an opinion that I still don’t know why upset anyone. I feel like all you needed to do was see that this was my first post on any of those threads, that it wasn’t disrespectful or intentionally harmful and then clue me in on why my opinion was not appropriate in your opinion.
I don’t know the other poster’s situation other than in your message that I perceived to have threatened me, you said that he had a lot of emotional things this year. Well so have some others. Both of my parents were diagnosed with cancer this year and my wife lost her father to cancer. None of us are without emotional challenges.
I respect that in hindsight it appears that you are trying to protect someone in some way that I still do not know. But I do absolutely still disagree with the threatening tone you took with me. Again, I didn’t realize my post would be upsetting and all I needed was a little more context if we can still use this word.
So I’m trying to give you my context so that you can better understand where I was coming from. I only wished that you had done that with me before threatening me. So if you want to take action, as moderator, that is your authority on this board. But as a person and a professional, I can only ask that you don’t go right to threatening posters before having a clear picture of their actions and intentions. I apologize to you if you feel I have overstepped my bounds in explaining my point of view.