When in a social setting, you call people by their names, unless they tell you otherwise. Just good manners, which I know you are not capable of, as your best friends are horsies and all.Hey, I know, when at a gathering, say the Beav, let's ask everyone what they want to be called before the game. God knows, we wouldn't want to offend anyone. We also need to know the 3 people that would be offended. Ffs.