IMHO, well played LJ. Supportive without being overt (given your relationship).
As a dad, with a daughter, I always want to "fix the problem" when my daughter just wants to rant. So I often take her comments too literally. One of my favorite books is Men are from Mars. My neighbor grabs a word is daughter uses, like "frustrating", and just repeats it to his daughter as she rants. Then, after she is ranted out, he asks is he an offer his opinion. She, of course, says yes and he gently walks through the problem offering potential solutions. The back and forth results in some good ideas that she grabs onto and executes. It takes great patience but seems to work.
Back to "Mars", this is an issue with my wife as well. She complains, I offer solutions, and she gets mad. I listen to women at the airport on their phones and see a pattern of them just ranting to friends. Its a back and forth. One rants, the other offers sympathy, then its the other woman's turn. Dudes, on the other hand, just say "fix the damn problem" and typically don't spend more than a few minutes on the phone. Its crazy and weird.
I harken back to a one-man show named "defending the caveman". If you think about it, women had to raise kids so they became hunters and gatherers. men hunt. Women, spend hours selected the best apple or berry or green. men see a rabbit and kill it, there is no time to consider "is this a good rabbit or a bad one?" Women like to outflank a problem, men use a frontal assault. We can all discuss the PC crap, but men and women approach problems differently, for the most part. No way is better, overall, just different. But men need to put away their natural "kill a rabbit" mentality and try to think like a hunter/gatherer.