Feel free to consider this a run-on tangent more than anything.
If the past six months have taught me anything, it’s that life is short and should be treated as such. It’s also taught me that through all this “noise,” we as a people collectively have more in common with each other than we think.
So why is it that, when it comes to things such as sports, we have rivalries? I’m not talking about good, healthy rivalries that’re based on two teams frequently playing each other while having a common level of respect for one another, but consuming rivalries that transcend the game itself and become filled with hatred, disrespect, and disgust.
Have we ever thought about why we arbitrarily declare an opposing school or city to be the scum of the earth? In most cases, location is a common theme amongst rivalries. In the case of a Pitt fan, isn’t it strange that I grew up being told that Penn State is our biggest rival, meaning I must dislike everything about them and those associated with them? The same can be said for a Penn State fan and Ohio State, Michigan State, or whoever else you consider to be your rival these days. The ironic thing is, a lot of those associated with “the enemy” are our friends and family members.
Have you ever actually thought about why you dislike a particular school or team? Was it a specific event throughout the years, a build-up over time, or just because that’s who everyone else associated to your team has chosen to dislike?
Then I think about the Pitt-Penn State series that resumed in 2016. (Some of) the games were fun, but it was just filled with a lot of nastiness and useless vitriol from both sides. Heck, what’s the point of visiting a message board just to get into an endless, irrelevant argument about nothing? When you think about it, it was silly in hindsight; most of the young people with a dog in the fight had no recollection of a Pitt-Penn State game, much less it being a significant matchup, but fought each other and exchanged cruel barbs because the schools are located ~2 hours away. The same can be said for any other rivalry in any other sport on any other level of competition.
I guess the point I’m getting to is that is it worth it to have these types of emotions build up over sports? Why can’t we just cheer on our team instead of absolutely despising opponents, certain ones more so than others? This isn’t a comment directed towards Pitt and/or Penn State, but rather in general. Maybe I’m growing “soft” or perhaps the six month layoff has made me grown apathetic toward the subject, but, going back to the “we’re more similar than different” comment, what’s the point of these heated fights online and between fanbases? It becomes even more nonsensical when you consider that, more often than not, many of these same feelings aren’t shared by the players themselves.
Is it the instinctive competitive nature of humans, that we must “be better” than our neighbors and make sure they hear about it, too? Even if there’s heated emotions after a particular game or series, why does this carry over for generations of fans when the “rivalry” itself is long gone?
Alas, maybe I’m just tired of all the bickering in the world nowadays. I use sports as a vehicle to escape everything else happening but I see the same fights, just with different material. I’ll buck the trend and say that I wish you and yours good health throughout these troubling times. I’ll be the first one to say I’ll enjoy the moment I see Penn State back on the field and fans inside your stadium because that’ll mean life has regained its normalcy.
If the past six months have taught me anything, it’s that life is short and should be treated as such. It’s also taught me that through all this “noise,” we as a people collectively have more in common with each other than we think.
So why is it that, when it comes to things such as sports, we have rivalries? I’m not talking about good, healthy rivalries that’re based on two teams frequently playing each other while having a common level of respect for one another, but consuming rivalries that transcend the game itself and become filled with hatred, disrespect, and disgust.
Have we ever thought about why we arbitrarily declare an opposing school or city to be the scum of the earth? In most cases, location is a common theme amongst rivalries. In the case of a Pitt fan, isn’t it strange that I grew up being told that Penn State is our biggest rival, meaning I must dislike everything about them and those associated with them? The same can be said for a Penn State fan and Ohio State, Michigan State, or whoever else you consider to be your rival these days. The ironic thing is, a lot of those associated with “the enemy” are our friends and family members.
Have you ever actually thought about why you dislike a particular school or team? Was it a specific event throughout the years, a build-up over time, or just because that’s who everyone else associated to your team has chosen to dislike?
Then I think about the Pitt-Penn State series that resumed in 2016. (Some of) the games were fun, but it was just filled with a lot of nastiness and useless vitriol from both sides. Heck, what’s the point of visiting a message board just to get into an endless, irrelevant argument about nothing? When you think about it, it was silly in hindsight; most of the young people with a dog in the fight had no recollection of a Pitt-Penn State game, much less it being a significant matchup, but fought each other and exchanged cruel barbs because the schools are located ~2 hours away. The same can be said for any other rivalry in any other sport on any other level of competition.
I guess the point I’m getting to is that is it worth it to have these types of emotions build up over sports? Why can’t we just cheer on our team instead of absolutely despising opponents, certain ones more so than others? This isn’t a comment directed towards Pitt and/or Penn State, but rather in general. Maybe I’m growing “soft” or perhaps the six month layoff has made me grown apathetic toward the subject, but, going back to the “we’re more similar than different” comment, what’s the point of these heated fights online and between fanbases? It becomes even more nonsensical when you consider that, more often than not, many of these same feelings aren’t shared by the players themselves.
Is it the instinctive competitive nature of humans, that we must “be better” than our neighbors and make sure they hear about it, too? Even if there’s heated emotions after a particular game or series, why does this carry over for generations of fans when the “rivalry” itself is long gone?
Alas, maybe I’m just tired of all the bickering in the world nowadays. I use sports as a vehicle to escape everything else happening but I see the same fights, just with different material. I’ll buck the trend and say that I wish you and yours good health throughout these troubling times. I’ll be the first one to say I’ll enjoy the moment I see Penn State back on the field and fans inside your stadium because that’ll mean life has regained its normalcy.